Showing posts with label #family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #family. Show all posts

Tuesday, 22 March 2016

AT THE EDGE OF THE ORCHARD by Tracy Chevalier



Another brilliant book from my favourite author, Tracy Chevalier. I feel that this book, more than all the others Tracy has written showcases her ability to create memorable, realistic characters. Tracy's ability to transport you to another world is equally admirable as is her research which makes her work not only entertaining but highly informative and educational. At the Edge of the Orchard is a pioneer story of James and Sadie Goodenough who settle in Black Swamp, Ohio, in 1838, planting apple trees to lay claim to the land. The hardships of cultivating virgin land and battling yearly swamp fever which takes five of their ten children culminates in a family tragedy of gigantic proportions. From a family of 12, only one survives in the end with reverberating effects of family roots that can never be silenced. This book will teach you about apples and trees and living off the land. In 1800's land was everything. The contrast in the way of life from that century to ours is startling. Imagine having to wait 2-3 years to receive wages for the work you do today. This was the life of the pioneers who depended on soil for their survival and livelihood. This book will take you from the agriculture of the east coast of America to the gold rush in California and more trees...redwoods and sequoias, the groves of which run up and down the coast of California, protected in many national and state parks. It will make you want to see them. This is a book to add to your library.


Monday, 3 August 2015

LEAVING TIME by Jodi Picoult


This was one of the best of Jodi Picoult books. The subject was fascinating and the twist in the story unexpected and extremely clever. The story follows a young girl who is trying to find her mother who became lost to her when she was three. She employs the help of a burnt out psychic and a retired policeman who was in charge of a murder case in an elephant sanctuary where her mother worked and following which her mother disappeared. This book will take you to the wonderful world of elephants in Africa and in preservation in America. It explores the dynamics of motherhood within the elephant kingdom and parallels it with that of human's and I must say the elephants come out on top. While the elephant will not leave her dead calf's body for days on end, the mother of this story runs away not knowing what has even happened to her child. The book also advocates the existence of life after death and the reality of spirit beings through the theory of reincarnation. Even though this theory is one among many which attempt to explain the meaning of life, I found it had profound bearing on the story and left me saddened knowing that there are people out there believing that family relationships end with death and that even though we continue to live as spirits we do not continue the associations we formed in 'each' of our lives. The theory of reincarnation gives little to no hope that we will ever see our loved ones again as we hop around to different bodies and different lives which makes the possibility of crossing paths with people we've come to love extremely thin. I do not believe in the theory of reincarnation and consider it absurd. I do, however, believe in life after death and that we continue on as spirits until the time of resurrection. I look forward to meeting my ancestors with great anticipation when we will renew our family ties which will go on forever. I do not know if Jodi Picoult believes in reincarnation and is attempting to promote it through the medium of this book or if she has used this theory for the impact it makes on the story she tells but the fact that she makes no attempt to discredit it makes me think that she accepts it. If so I feel sorry for the lack of confidence she has in enduring family relationships which makes the premise of her story, that of irreplaceable mother's love, rather futile.


Wednesday, 1 July 2015

THE HUSBAND'S SECRET by Liane Moriarty



This is an excellent book, literally unputdownable, if there is such a word. Liane Moriarty did a fantastic job not just with the subject matter but with the plot of this book and the depth of the characters. Whereas Big Little Lies allowed the reader to see the characters through imagery, The Husband's Secret delved more into their hearts and the emotions relative to their lives' tragedies, current events and future hopes. I loved the way the character were cleverly intertwined and the stark awareness of how our lives have a bearing on others forming an almost invisible connectivity. It also highlights important choices we have to make in consideration of other's lives like our children. For this reason I loved the character of Tess and the forgiveness and sacrifice she made to preserve her family. This book presents important truths like the damage we suffer when we are do not accept accountability for our actions as is witnessed in John-Paul Fitzpatrick's character. His lack of accountability gave birth to karma culminating in tragedy suffered by his daughter Polly.The most startling realisation the book brings to light is that we will never know some facts and secrets which impact our lives and send us in different directions, some of which we are meant to take and others maybe not.


Monday, 2 February 2015

BITTERSWEET by Colleen McCullough


I loved this book. I was half way through it when I heard Colleen McCullough had passed away. I was terribly sad that there will be no more books coming from her well trained pen. Lucky for me she has written quite a few, the several of which I have in my possession. My two favourites are 'Thorn Birds' and 'The Touch'. 'Bittersweet' comes third so far. Whenever I choose a Colleen McCullough book, I know I am going to learn something significant. Her research is impeccable and her stories are closely aligned with historical places and events. This is true of Bittersweet, a novel set in rural NSW in 1920's and 30's. This is a charming story of four sisters who happen to be two sets of twins, at the forefront of professional nursing becoming the first registered nurses in Corunda. Even though the town is fictional, one gets a very realistic feel of rural Australia and love of the land. The book offers a very informative insight into women's lack of professional opportunities at a time when marriage was their primary option in a patriarchal society. It is hard to believe that only 80 years ago women were forced to choose between marriage or work. The book also leads the reader through the Depression and its devastating effects on families and in particular men, who were main providers. Colleen McCullough has a talent for incorporating the reader into the time and place she has chosen as a setting for her story. I appreciate this about her books more than the stories she weaves around places and points in history. This is an excellent book that highlights women's ability to deal with their limitations and tragedies and should make women of today more grateful for many opportunities and choices they are faced with.


Sunday, 18 January 2015

WHAT ALICE FORGOT by Liane Moriarty


I loved this book. I always like discovering a good writer and tend to read all their books. I also love books that deal with family dynamics. "What Alice Forgot" is one of those books. It is charming, clever and insightful. It allows the reader to see how false perceptions can change people, relationships and outcomes. It makes you to wonder if there is such a thing as truth and if people's perceptions is all there is. As Alice sustains a head injury in gym class she loses her memory of the past 10 years. She goes back to the time of her first pregnancy when her love for her husband was new and fresh and 'exhilarating and light and bubbly'. What Alice has forgotten is 10 years of three children and a marriage that hasn't survived its' challenges so well. Instead of 1998, it is 2008 and Alice is in the middle of a nasty divorce, the only problem is that Alice has forgotten that she hates the husband she is divorcing and loves him like they are newlyweds. Because the theme of the book is 'lost memories' Liane Moriarty uses the medium of reflection by three main characters to piece Alice's story together. Alice puts events of her life together through snippets of memory, her sister Elizabeth reflects on their relationship through the diary she is writing for her therapist and Alice's adopted grandmother Franny writes a blog. The rambling of these three women makes the characters very real and true to life. The diary Elizabeth keeps chronicling struggles of her infertility is both fascinating and heart wrenching. It shatters the inadequate perception you might have of women whose bodies betray their longing for motherhood. The ending of the book is extremely fitting with characters stepping up to the maturity that the situation asks for. This book is true to complexities of family dynamics, devoid of unnecessary sentiment and highly entertaining.


Wednesday, 3 December 2014

THE RETURNED by Jason Mott



This book irritated me no end. I wanted to read it because I follow the TV series "Resurrection" which is based on the book. I had hoped to get some explanation of 'the Returned' but that explanation was not to be found. What I did find out was that the TV series is way better than the book. The book explores the possibility of having our dear loved ones who had once graced this earth return to life, not as zombies, but as real live people in exact same state as when they passed away, or maybe not. There was one returned who came back with dementia that she had before she died, so did the sick return too? The publisher's review states they returned in the exact same state that they died in, so what of cancer suffers and those who had been chronically ill for years before death and those who had been mangled in car accidents? The author never addresses this possibility and portrays all other Returned as able bodied individuals roaming the countryside. One Returned had died in a car accident but she was perfect in her form when she came back so I see this as a major flow of the story. And what of criminals and murderers and rapists? The story presented too many questions and not enough answers. What irritated me the most is that there was no rhyme or reason to this phenomenon. The dead people were merely all of a sudden coming back as if from a sleep, not remembering how they got there and when they came back they served no purpose; they didn't mend any relationships, they didn't speak any words left unspoken or finish any business they had left undone before they passed away. All they did is create chaos and mayhem among those that didn't want them back, just by their presence. They were the Returned without a voice and depicted as innocent victims. Even those that accepted them didn't believe they were really their loved ones but some unnatural carbon copy and endeared themselves to them because of memories they kept close to their hearts. In the end, no explanation, rhyme or reason, just as the dead started to outnumber the living, they simply started vanishing and thank goodness for that! I did not see the point to this story and considered 'the Returned' the most bizarre concept. The author explains at the end of the book that he once had a dream where he found his dead mother in his kitchen and he related to her all his doings since she had passed. As he told his friend about this dream, his friend asked him: "Can you imagine if she actually did come back, just for one night? And what if it wasn't just her? What if it happened to other people too?" From this was born the idea of The Returned. The story would have endeared itself to me much more had the author focused more on how the three principal characters resolved their issues with their dead instead of treating those resolves as a sideline of the story. What should have been the central theme of the novel got lost in the problem of overpopulation. This was Jason Mott's first novel and even though his publisher calls him 'a unique voice' I am not certain that I would read his succeeding work.